But you will be a member of the club and you will get promoted and you will get good assignments. If you decide you want to do something, you may not get promoted and you may not get the good assignments and you certainly will not be a favorite of your superiors. You will be true to your friends and to yourself. And your work might make a difference.
To be somebody or to do something. In life there is often a roll call. Which way will you go? This reality comes in many names and forms: incentives, commitments, recognition, and politics. In every case, they can quickly redirect us from doing to being. From earning to pretending. Ego aids in that deception every step of the way. How do you prevent derailment? Well, often we fall in love with an image of what success looks like.
Appearances are deceiving. Having authority is not the same as being an authority. Having the right and being right are not the same either. Impressing people is utterly different from being truly impressive. So who are you with? Which side will you choose? This is the roll call that life puts before us. Boyd had another exercise. His point was that many of the systems and structures in the military—the ones that soldiers navigate in order to get ahead—can corrupt the very values they set out to serve.
How many times have we seen this played out in our own short lives—in sports, in relationships, or projects or people that we care deeply about? This is what the ego does. You want to be the best at what you do. Nobody wants to just be an empty suit. But in practical terms, which of the three words Boyd wrote on the chalkboard are going to get you there? Which are you practicing now? The choice that Boyd puts in front of us comes down to purpose.
What is your purpose? What are you here to do? If what matters is you—your reputation, your inclusion, your personal ease of life—your path is clear: Tell people what they want to hear. Seek attention over the quiet but important work. Pay your dues, check the boxes, put in your time, and leave things essentially as they are. Chase your fame, your salary, your title, and enjoy them as they come. He would know.
Once a free man, he saw that the choices people made, about their careers and their lives, had the same effect. What you choose to do with your time and what you choose to do for money works on you. The egocentric path requires, as Boyd knew, many compromises. If your purpose is something larger than you—to accomplish something, to prove something to yourself—then suddenly everything becomes both easier and more difficult. Easier in the sense that you know now what it is you need to do and what is important to you.
Harder because each opportunity—no matter how gratifying or rewarding—must be evaluated along strict guidelines: Does this help me do what I have set out to do? Does this allow me to do what I need to do? Am I being selfish or selfless? What principles govern my choices? Do I want to be like everyone else or do I want to do something different?
Boyd undeniably changed and improved his field in a way that almost no other theorist has since Sun Tzu or von Clausewitz. He was known as Genghis John for the way he never let obstacles or opponents stop him from what he needed to do. His choices were not without their costs. He was also known as the ghetto colonel because of his frugal lifestyle. He died with a drawerful of thousands of dollars in uncashed expense checks from private contractors, which he equated with bribes.
That he never advanced above colonel was not his doing; he was repeatedly held back for promotions. He was forgotten by history as a punishment for the work he did. Think about this the next time you start to feel entitled, the next time you conflate fame and the American Dream. Think about how you might measure up to a great man like that. Think about this the next time you face that choice: Do I need this? Or is it really about ego? Are you ready to make the right decision?
Or do the prizes still glitter off in the distance? To be or to do—life is a constant roll call. Without notice, members of the underground metal band Metallica assembled before a planned recording session in a decrepit warehouse in New York and informed their guitarist Dave Mustaine he was being thrown out of the group.
With few words, they handed him a bus ticket back to San Francisco. That same day, a decent young guitarist, Kirk Hammett, barely in his twenties and member of a band called Exodus, was given the job. Thrown right into a new life, he performed his first show with the band a few days later. One would assume that this was the moment Hammett had been waiting for his whole life. Indeed it was. Though only known in small circles at the time, Metallica was a band that seemed destined to go places.
Their music had already begun to push the boundaries of the genre of thrash metal, and cult stardom had already begun. Within a few short years, it would be one of the biggest bands in the world, eventually selling more than million albums. At his home in San Francisco, he looked for a guitar teacher. In other words, despite joining his dream group and quite literally turning professional, Kirk insisted that he needed more instruction—that he was still a student.
Joe Satriani, the man Hammett chose as his instructor, would himself go on to become known as one of the best guitar players of all time and sell more than 10 million records of his unique, virtuosic music. Many of his friends and contemporaries would storm out complaining thinking I was too harsh a teacher.
So for the next two years Kirk did as Satriani required, returning every week for objective feedback, judgment, and drilling in technique and musical theory for the instrument he would soon be playing in front of thousands, then tens of thousands, and then literally hundreds of thousands of people.
Each time, he improved as a player and as an artist. Not even close. You defer to them, you subsume yourself. You cannot fake or bullshit them. Or that we have a lot left to learn. We want to be done. We want to be ready. For this reason, updating your appraisal of your talents in a downward direction is one of the most difficult things to do in life—but it is almost always a component of mastery.
The pretense of knowledge is our most dangerous vice, because it prevents us from getting any better. Studious self- assessment is the antidote. The result, no matter what your musical tastes happen to be, was that Hammett became one of the great metal guitarists in the world, taking thrash metal from an underground movement into a thriving global musical genre. Not only that, but from those lessons, Satriani honed his own technique and became much better himself.
Both the student and the teacher would go on to fill stadiums and remake the musical landscape. The mixed martial arts pioneer and multi-title champion Frank Shamrock has a system he trains fighters in that he calls plus, minus, and equal. Each fighter, to become great, he said, needs to have someone better that they can learn from, someone lesser who they can teach, and someone equal that they can challenge themselves against.
It purges out the ego that puffs us up, the fear that makes us doubt ourselves, and any laziness that might make us want to coast. For me, I always stay a student. You put yourself beneath someone you trust. A scientist must know the core principles of science and the discoveries occurring on the cutting edge.
A philosopher must know deeply, and also know how little they know, as Socrates did. A writer must be versed in the canon—and read and be challenged by her contemporaries too.
A historian must know ancient and modern history, as well as their specialty. Professional athletes have teams of coaches, and even powerful politicians have advisers and mentors. To become great and to stay great, they must all know what came before, what is going on now, and what comes next.
They must internalize the fundamentals of their domain and what surrounds them, without ossifying or becoming stuck in time.
They must be always learning. We must all become our own teachers, tutors, and critics. Think about what Hammett could have done—what we might have done in his position were we to suddenly find ourselves a rock star, or a soon-to-be-rock star in our chosen field. They chose me because I have what it takes. There are, after all, plenty of forgotten metal groups from the s. A true student is like a sponge. Absorbing what goes on around him, filtering it, latching on to what he can hold.
A student is self- critical and self-motivated, always trying to improve his understanding so that he can move on to the next topic, the next challenge. A real student is also his own teacher and his own critic. There is no room for ego there.
Take fighting as an example again, where self-awareness is particularly crucial because opponents are constantly looking to match strength against weakness. If a fighter is not capable of learning and practicing every day, if he is not relentlessly looking for areas of improvement, examining his own shortcomings, and finding new techniques to borrow from peers and opponents, he will be broken down and destroyed.
It is not all that different for the rest of us. Are we not fighting for or against something? Do you think you are the only one who hopes to achieve your goal? It tends to surprise people how humble aspiring greats seem to have been. The art of taking feedback is such a crucial skill in life, particularly harsh and critical feedback. The ego avoids such feedback at all costs, however. Who wants to remand themselves to remedial training?
It thinks it already knows how and who we are—that is, it thinks we are spectacular, perfect, genius, truly innovative. It dislikes reality and prefers its own assessment. To become what we ultimately hope to become often takes long periods of obscurity, of sitting and wrestling with some topic or paradox.
As we sit down to proof our work, as we make our first elevator pitch, prepare to open our first shop, as we stare out into the dress rehearsal audience, ego is the enemy—giving us wicked feedback, disconnected from reality.
Today, books are cheaper than ever. Courses are free. Access to teachers is no longer a barrier—technology has done away with that. There is no excuse for not getting your education, and because the information we have before us is so vast, there is no excuse for ever ending that process either.
Our teachers in life are not only those we pay, as Hammett paid Satriani. Nor are they necessarily part of some training dojo, like it is for Shamrock.
Many of the best teachers are free. They volunteer because, like you, they once were young and had the same goals you do. But ego makes us so hardheaded and hostile to feedback that it drives them away or puts them beyond our reach.
Without the desire and the pains necessary to be considerable, depend upon it, you never can be so. Find your passion. Live passionately. Inspire the world with your passion. People go to Burning Man to find passion, to be around passion, to rekindle their passion. Because just as often, we fail with—no, because of— passion. The person had meant it as a compliment. She had purpose. She had direction. George W. The inventor and investors of the Segway believed they had a world-changing innovation on their hands and put everything into evangelizing it.
That all of these talented, smart individuals were fervent believers in what they sought to do is without dispute. Like every other dilettante, they had passion and lacked something else. It is that burning, unquenchable desire to start or to achieve some vague, ambitious, and distant goal. This seemingly innocuous motivation is so far from the right track it hurts. He saw those extra emotions as a burden. No one would describe Eleanor Roosevelt or John Wooden or his notoriously quiet player Kareem as apathetic.
Wooden won ten titles in twelve years, including seven in a row, because he developed a system for winning and worked with his players to follow it. Neither of them were driven by excitement, nor were they bodies in constant motion. Instead, it took them years to become the person they became known as. It was a process of accumulation. Opportunities are not usually deep, virgin pools that require courage and boldness to dive into, but instead are obscured, dusted over, blocked by various forms of resistance.
What is really called for in these circumstances is clarity, deliberateness, and methodological determination. But too often, we proceed like this.
The reality: We hear what we want to hear. We do what we feel like doing, and despite being incredibly busy and working very hard, we accomplish very little. Or worse, find ourselves in a mess we never anticipated. Because we only seem to hear about the passion of successful people, we forget that failures shared the same trait. With the Segway, the inventor and investors wrongly assumed a demand much greater than ever existed. With the run-up to the war in Iraq, its proponents ignored objections and negative feedback because they conflicted with what they so deeply needed to believe.
With Robert Falcon Scott, it was overconfidence and zeal without consideration of the real dangers. In many more examples we see the same mistakes: overinvesting, underinvesting, acting before someone is really ready, breaking things that required delicacy—not so much malice as the drunkenness of passion.
Passion typically masks a weakness. Its breathlessness and impetuousness and franticness are poor substitutes for discipline, for mastery, for strength and purpose and perseverance.
You need to be able to spot this in others and in yourself, because while the origins of passion may be earnest and good, its effects are comical and then monstrous. Passion is seen in those who can tell you in great detail who they intend to become and what their success will be like—they might even be able to tell you specifically when they intend to achieve it or describe to you legitimate and sincere worries they have about the burdens of such accomplishments.
Because there rarely is any. How can someone be busy and not accomplish anything? If the definition of insanity is trying the same thing over and over and expecting different results, then passion is a form of mental retardation—deliberately blunting our most critical cognitive functions.
The waste is often appalling in retrospect; the best years of our life burned out like a pair of spinning tires against the asphalt. Dogs, god bless them, are passionate. As numerous squirrels, birds, boxes, blankets, and toys can tell you, they do not accomplish most of what they set out to do.
A dog has an advantage in all this: a graciously short short-term memory that keeps at bay the creeping sense of futility and impotence. Reality for us humans, on the other hand, has no reason to be sensitive to the illusions we operate under. Eventually it will intrude. What humans require in our ascent is purpose and realism. Purpose, you could say, is like passion with boundaries. Realism is detachment and perspective. When we are young, or when our cause is young, we feel so intensely—passion like our hormones runs strongest in youth—that it seems wrong to take it slow.
This is just our impatience. Passion is about. Purpose is to and for. Actually, purpose deemphasizes the I. Purpose is about pursuing something outside yourself as opposed to pleasuring yourself.
More than purpose, we also need realism. Where do we start? What do we do first? What do we do right now? What are we benchmarking ourselves against? Which is why a deliberate, purposeful person operates on a different level, beyond the sway or the sickness.
They hire professionals and use them. They ask questions, they ask what could go wrong, they ask for examples. They plan for contingencies. Then they are off to the races. Usually they get started with small steps, complete them, and look for feedback on how the next set can be better. They lock in gains, and then get better as they go, often leveraging those gains to grow exponentially rather than arithmetically. Is an iterative approach less exciting than manifestos, epiphanies, flying across the country to surprise someone, or sending four- thousand-word stream-of-consciousness e-mails in the middle of the night?
Of course. Is it less glamorous and bold than going all in and maxing out your credit cards because you believe in yourself?
Same goes for the spreadsheets, the meetings, the trips, the phone calls, software, tools, and internal systems—and every how- to article ever written about them and the routines of famous people. Passion is form over function. Purpose is function, function, function. The critical work that you want to do will require your deliberation and consideration. Not passion. Leave passion for the amateurs. Make it about what you feel you must do and say, not what you care about and wish to be.
Then you will do great things. Then you will stop being your old, good-intentioned, but ineffective self. Successful businessmen, politicians, or rich playboys would subsidize a number of writers, thinkers, artists, and performers.
More than just being paid to produce works of art, these artists performed a number of tasks in exchange for protection, food, and gifts. The famous epigrammist Martial fulfilled this role for many years, serving for a time under the patron Mela, a wealthy businessman and brother of the Stoic philosopher and political adviser Seneca. Born without a rich family, Martial also served under another businessman named Petilius. As a young writer, he spent most of his day traveling from the home of one rich patron to another, providing services, paying his respects, and receiving small token payments and favors in return.
He seemed to believe that this system somehow made him a slave. Aspiring to live like some country squire, like the patrons he serviced, Martial wanted money and an estate that was all his own.
There, he dreamed, he could finally produce his works in peace and independence. What if—gasp—he could have appreciated the opportunities it offered? It seemed to eat him up inside instead. How dare they force me to grovel like this! The injustice! The waste! We see it in recent lawsuits in which interns sue their employers for pay. We see it in an inability to meet anyone else on their terms, an unwillingness to take a step back in order to potentially take several steps forward.
I will not let them get one over on me. Keep your head down, they say, and serve your boss. Naturally, this is not what the kid who was chosen over all the other kids for the position wants to hear. The better wording for the advice is this: Find canvases for other people to paint on.
Be an anteambulo. Clear the path for the people above you and you will eventually create a path for yourself. Obeisance is the way forward. No one is endorsing sycophancy. Remember that anteambulo means clearing the path—finding the direction someone already intended to head and helping them pack, freeing them up to focus on their strengths.
In fact, making things better rather than simply looking as if you are. What a clever young prodigy, they think, and miss the most impressive part entirely: Franklin wrote those letters, submitted them by sliding them under the print-shop door, and received absolutely no credit for them until much later in his life.
Franklin was playing the long game, though—learning how public opinion worked, generating awareness of what he believed in, crafting his style and tone and wit. Bill Belichick, the four-time Super Bowl—winning head coach of the New England Patriots, made his way up the ranks of the NFL by loving and mastering the one part of the job that coaches disliked at the time: analyzing film. His first job in professional football, for the Baltimore Colts, was one he volunteered to take without pay—and his insights, which provided ammunition and critical strategies for the game, were attributed exclusively to the more senior coaches.
He thrived on what was considered grunt work, asked for it and strove to become the best at precisely what others thought they were too good for. As you can guess, Belichick started getting paid very soon. Before that, as a young high school player, he was so knowledgeable about the game that he functioned as a sort of assistant coach even while playing the game. He learned how to be a rising star without threatening or alienating anyone.
In other words, he had mastered the canvas strategy. You can see how easily entitlement and a sense of superiority the trappings of ego would have made the accomplishments of either of these men impossible. Belichick would have pissed off his coach and then probably been benched if he had one-upped him in public. Greatness comes from humble beginnings; it comes from grunt work.
Be lesser, do more. Imagine if for every person you met, you thought of some way to help them, something you could do for them? And you looked at it in a way that entirely benefited them and not you. Making a concerted effort to trade your short-term gratification for a longer-term payoff.
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